Guys, How Can You Tell If She is Ready For Sex - The First Time

Guys how many times have you found yourself in the following situation:

You have a new female friend who seems to be interested in you. You've gone out a few times, really enjoy each other's company and seem to have a certain chemistry together. Now you are ready to take things to the next level physically, but you are afraid to read her wrong and scare her off.

By now she has either considered you as a possible sex partner or she has already completely ruled you out. You must say and do the right things to persuade her to your point of view without "creeping her out" or making yourself look stupid.
Is she really ready to go further or is it all in your head? Pay attention to the following clues:
Does she hold intense eye contact with you or "gaze into your eyes"?
Does she smile and laugh often in response to the things you say (especially if you didn't mean it to be funny)?
Does she caress herself or run her fingers through her hair while she's talking to you?
Does she start tapping, touching, caressing or leaning on you?
Does she start talking about her sexual interests or preferences, with out any prompting from you?

In my opinion, the last sign is the most important. Most women are used to being constantly invited or approached by men about sex. Rejecting those whom she is not interested in can range from uncomfortable to annoying to downright traumatic. So if she brings up the topic of sex in your conversations, on her own, no matter how casual or nonchalantly, that is an almost certain sign that she is seriously considering you as a future partner (but you can still mess it up at any time, so always keep your cool).

Guys, the most important thing I can tell you about women is...pay attention. Women are very fluid and intuitive creatures and so are the men who have the most success with women. If you do not pay attention you will either miss the cues she's giving you to move forward or misread the cues she's giving you to back off.

Good Luck!

Getting the Sex Life You Want and Deserve - Starting With F

Do you want to improve your sex life? It seems that most people do, whether they are heterosexuals, homosexuals, or somewhere in between. If you are like most of us, you want more sex and you want better sex, and you want it now. Don't believe that there is a magic pick-up line, pill, potion, or perfume that will make it happen immediately, if not sooner. But we do believe that our articles can make a major difference in your sex life, and even in your love life, if that's what you want. Why not give them a try?

We have so many suggestions for improving your sex life that we are putting together an alphabetical list of what to do. Just so you don't miss out, we are also putting together an alphabetical list of what not to do. Don't waste all your time, effort, perhaps money, and perhaps love by putting your foot in your mouth when what you really want; we all know what you really want. This article focuses on fantasy, feeling, and footsie.

F is for fantasy. Fantasies are great in the bedroom or elsewhere as long as they are within bounds (no rough stuff, no degradation, I think you get the idea) and as long as you don't let them take over. It may be true that reality bites, but we do have to live with it. More or less. If you are up to it, trade fantasies with your partner or partners. But you really should be careful. Some people will use a partner's fantasies against him or her. This could be as simple as constantly repeating, "So you don't think I'm as attractive as Cindy Crawford," or "I know you wouldn't tell Billy-Boy no if he wanted that." Billy-Boy could be Clinton, Gates, or that twenty-two year-old who just moved in the apartment across the hall. Don't let fantasies take over. And why not give your partner as much as you would give Billy-Boy?

F is for feeling. Feelings... Feelings. When you are feeling it's great if you are surrounded by feelings. Share you feelings and I don't just mean the jingling and jangling of your favorite nerve endings. Let your partner know that you feel for him or her across the room, and across the continent. You may even share feelings about a work of art (not necessarily nudes) or a tasty stir-fry. If you really feel for each other, that may enhance your sexual feelings as well.

F is for footsie. Playing footsie is fun. You can always pretend it was an accident if the response is more or less "Get your stinking feet off of me before I call the cops." On the other hand an energetic yet sensual reply is almost a promise of things to come. Unless the object of your affectionate toes is a foot fetishist. Then you may be in trouble. Let's hope that he or she washes his feet, preferably with an anti-fungal disinfectant. By the way, with the exception of Immelda Marcos who was more of a shoe fetishist, have you ever heard of a female foot fetishist? But there are women who like to play footsie and I don't blame them.

How to Find the Female G-Spot - Does the G Spot Exist?

I was talking to a male friend the other day and he told me that the g-spot does not exist. I found it hard not to laugh as I had the night before, taken my lover into intense g-spot orgasms for at least 40 minutes.

In my experience with many women, g-spot and cervical orgasms are more intense and much more body shaking than the usual clitoris orgasms.

When a woman first has these types of deeper orgasms she will just say WOW after the experience of such pleasure.

It is pretty easy to teach a man how to find the g-spot as it is not that hard to find with a bit of information. You just need to do a few steps and get some feedback from your lover to find it successfully.

Where is the g-spot?

The g-spot is usually located about two inches inside of the vaginal canal on the upper side or top.

How big is the g-spot?

Generally the g-spot is a dime to quarter-sized area with ridges like a walnut. However, every woman is different as regards the exact location and the texture of this area.

How do you find the g-spot?

Make sure your lady is very turned on before starting g spot massage. One can use ones finger to explore the vulva. Make sure your partner guides you as to the exact location. She should notice unique sensations when you touch this special spot. The g-spot can take some good pressure so let you lover guide you to what she likes.

One Secret: G-spot and clitoral orgasms combined.

A woman can experience orgasm from g-spot stimulation massage alone. One can also stimulate the g spot and clitoris so she experiences clitoral and g-spot orgasms at the same time? Trust me, having both types of orgasm at once is surely an amazing and earth-shattering orgasmic experience