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Thursday, April 17, 2008

When We Make Love - Let's Do It Right

When we make love we tend to focus more on our own satisfaction. This is wrong. We must consider our partner’s feelings when we make love. Mutual enjoyment is key.


I said it before.


Love making is one of those special bonuses that crown a happy marriage. It is not for teenagers. It is not for single people either.


However, even married people need to exercise consideration and balance in love making. None of the parties involved should expect to have his/her way all the time.

Granted, different people have different levels of sexual activity. You may be more sexually active or more sexually inclined than your husband. Consequently, you may tend to want to make love more.


Your husband, on the other hand, may be less quickly aroused sexually. So he may not be in the mood a lot of the times when you are. Then there is conflict.
This is not a matter to be taken lightly. Some marriages actually end their lack-lustre run . . . caused by lack of active sexual attraction . . . with an unhappy breakup. This is sad.


Consenting to make love when one party is ready and the other is not quite in the mood is one thing. Actually getting fulfillment anticipated is another when we make love.

The reality is . . . you cannot always


get everything you desire when you desire it.

With regard to when we make love . . . you cannot satisfy your sexual desires all the time because your mate may not always be in the mood. Therefore, it should be a give and take thing.


Couples should be considerate. Work hard to satisfy your partner.


You wives . . . let your husband have it his way sometimes.


You husbands . . . let your wife have it her way sometimes, most times if you can. She will love you for it.

Friday, April 11, 2008

Virgin Girl - Keep Your Virginity, Gain Self Esteem

A virgin girl may not appreciate what she has. Some girls actually loose their virginity because of peer pressure. They give away their virginity just to fit in, just to belong.


Here's some great news.

Contrary to what your friends say, being a virgin girl is perfectly normal. You're perfectly normal
as a virgin. You won't fall ill because you didn't have sex before twenty one. You won't even get
sick if you don't have sex before thirty five.

Another thing.

You don't have to play along with your friends to do evil in other to feel great about yourself. You don't have to belong to a certain circle of friends to be important.


You can achieve what you want to achieve and be anything you want to be without having to follow the wrong crowd. Self-esteem is a thing of the mind. If you feel good about yourself no one can put you down.


This is important because many young girls have veered into sexual misconduct simply to please their friends or to be rated as mature by friends.

Some other college girls have been lured to sexual misbehavior because they fear they may get sick if they do not have sex before they are twenty.


This may all sound silly and irrational to you. But ignorance breeds fear.


To compound matters, many parents do not feel comfortable discussing sexual matters with their children. When children ask questions relating to sexuality, many parents skim over the subject or dodge it outright.


That doesn't help your children.


Since parents often fail to carry out their responsibility to their children, these innocent children turn to their peers for answers. And the answers they get are often distorted and far from the truth.


The result?
Pregnant teens, troubled teens, and reckless teens that become depressed adults. These depressed adults eventually become a nuisance to society.

You young woman reading this, I have this simple advice for you.


Do not join your friends to experiment with sex. It is like walking on red hot coal. Your legs will get burnt.


If you are a virgin girl, maintain your virginity. Your virginity is a source of pride to your parents. And when you get married as a virgin girl, your husband will be extremely proud of you.


Remaining a virgin girl until you marry establishes your marriage on sound footing of trust. Your husband knows he can trust you because you have self-discipline and love of righteousness.


It takes self-discipline, self-control, and love of God to stay morally upright in this decadent generation. When you are able to do that and maintain your virginity straight to marriage you gain self-esteem as a woman of substance.


Besides, you save yourself the trauma your wayward schoolmates experience. You save yourself the pain of teen pregnancy and fatherless baby. And you save yourself the pain of a wasted life.


Your friends are wrong when they say virginity is archaic and dark age morality.


Remaining a virgin girl is a thing of pride. As a virgin you can hold your head high anywhere you go. You have no need of shame.


You have self-confidence, self-esteem, poise and a feeling of fulfillment.

Wouldn't you rather remain an innocent virgin girl and enjoy such honor than be tossed about because your stomach is bulging with pregnancy for a baby who has no father?


Yeah. I know you will do the right thing.


However, there are certain mistakes that young people your age make that undermine their decision to remain a virgin girl.


Young girls tend to be avid readers of romance stories.

Free Love Making Positions

Free love making positions ebooks and articles get mass download. People are frantically searching for new ways to make love. And since sex is the most popular of subjects, love making guides marketers are having a filled day.

What love making techniques have you personally found to give the most satisfaction? What love making techniques satisfies not just you but also your partner?


Don't answer that. Sorry, answer that to yourself.


Why yourself?


Well, sex is a personal thing. So this is a personal question.


However, you must note that love making is between two people. So, love making guides that promote individualism or seek to satisfy one party is biased and not worth a second thought.


Here are the most common love making techniques.


1. Man on top, woman below. This is the natural setting and the most common you will find anywhere. It is commonly referred to as missionary position.


2. Woman on top, man below.


3. Both sexes lie side by side with the woman backing the man. In this case, penetration is from behind.


4. Wife on all fours, bottom horizontal. Penetration from behind.


And several others.


Many free love making guides offer a handful of love making techniques free and then offer to sell you a $39 ebook with 101 (and more) love making techniques.


Should you go for these heaven-high-claims ebooks?


It's entirely up to you.


The problem with these love making guides and ebooks is that they make outrageous recommendations for you and your partner. The love making techniques they recommend are often painfully selfish. And they end up hurting your wife.


Want to get the best love making experience?


Follow your heart and do what's best. What's best is what gives you and your partner the most satisfaction.


Discuss with your partner. Enjoy your love relationship and the bonus of love making. Ask her what she wants and what she enjoys most.

Remember . . . you're in this together.


Free love making positions?


Be careful what you read and do