When We Make Love - Let's Do It Right

When we make love we tend to focus more on our own satisfaction. This is wrong. We must consider our partner’s feelings when we make love. Mutual enjoyment is key.


I said it before.


Love making is one of those special bonuses that crown a happy marriage. It is not for teenagers. It is not for single people either.


However, even married people need to exercise consideration and balance in love making. None of the parties involved should expect to have his/her way all the time.

Granted, different people have different levels of sexual activity. You may be more sexually active or more sexually inclined than your husband. Consequently, you may tend to want to make love more.


Your husband, on the other hand, may be less quickly aroused sexually. So he may not be in the mood a lot of the times when you are. Then there is conflict.
This is not a matter to be taken lightly. Some marriages actually end their lack-lustre run . . . caused by lack of active sexual attraction . . . with an unhappy breakup. This is sad.


Consenting to make love when one party is ready and the other is not quite in the mood is one thing. Actually getting fulfillment anticipated is another when we make love.

The reality is . . . you cannot always


get everything you desire when you desire it.

With regard to when we make love . . . you cannot satisfy your sexual desires all the time because your mate may not always be in the mood. Therefore, it should be a give and take thing.


Couples should be considerate. Work hard to satisfy your partner.


You wives . . . let your husband have it his way sometimes.


You husbands . . . let your wife have it her way sometimes, most times if you can. She will love you for it.