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Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Guys, How Can You Tell If She is Ready For Sex - The First Time

Guys how many times have you found yourself in the following situation:

You have a new female friend who seems to be interested in you. You've gone out a few times, really enjoy each other's company and seem to have a certain chemistry together. Now you are ready to take things to the next level physically, but you are afraid to read her wrong and scare her off.

By now she has either considered you as a possible sex partner or she has already completely ruled you out. You must say and do the right things to persuade her to your point of view without "creeping her out" or making yourself look stupid.
Is she really ready to go further or is it all in your head? Pay attention to the following clues:
Does she hold intense eye contact with you or "gaze into your eyes"?
Does she smile and laugh often in response to the things you say (especially if you didn't mean it to be funny)?
Does she caress herself or run her fingers through her hair while she's talking to you?
Does she start tapping, touching, caressing or leaning on you?
Does she start talking about her sexual interests or preferences, with out any prompting from you?

In my opinion, the last sign is the most important. Most women are used to being constantly invited or approached by men about sex. Rejecting those whom she is not interested in can range from uncomfortable to annoying to downright traumatic. So if she brings up the topic of sex in your conversations, on her own, no matter how casual or nonchalantly, that is an almost certain sign that she is seriously considering you as a future partner (but you can still mess it up at any time, so always keep your cool).

Guys, the most important thing I can tell you about women is...pay attention. Women are very fluid and intuitive creatures and so are the men who have the most success with women. If you do not pay attention you will either miss the cues she's giving you to move forward or misread the cues she's giving you to back off.

Good Luck!