How to: Stimulating the G-spot

The female G-spot can be compared to a sort of Holy Grail of sexual pleasure for women, while the men who are looking for it are knight’s trying to obtain the highest possible sexual satisfaction for their ladies. Many couples have spent hours and hours trying to find that magic pleasure spot, mostly because there is something inherently alluring about mastering a way of boosting pleasure beyond the normal orgasm. And we all know that once you’ve found that hot spot, the gates of pleasure are wide open.

Any person who has tried to stimulate the G- spot knows very well that it is located on the vagina wall, toward the pelvic bone and that in order to reach it you must insert a finger and bend it upwards. This is by far the easiest way to locate the G-spot and to arouse it. Once you’re there, you can either move the finger as you’re scratching something (don’t use your nails!) or move in little circles in order to cover a wider area. If you think of it, better use two fingers on the G-spot, to get the most pleasure out of the whole thing. While you’re at it, you can also use another finger or your wet tongue on the clitoris or, if you’re feeling in a perky mood, put a finger up her anus.

There is not a lot of room for improvement and imagination when it comes to playing with the G-spot. A man can use some sex toys, his fingers or his penis, while the woman can stimulate herself using toys or her fingers. Of course, the sex toys must be appropriate for this activity, which means that you need a vibrator or dildo with a hooked or bent tip that makes it easier to reach the G-spot. Don’t move the toy around too much and don’t try to make circles with the tip. Toys are more difficult to use than fingers, so try to move the tip back and forward over the spot, while adding a little pressure. Your partner will definitely let you know if what you do feels good or not.

The playful lover knows that he can also reach the G-spot with his hard penis, although the thing is a bit trickier than just moving a finger around. You and your lady must try a couple of special positions in order to find those that allow you to give the G-spot a good rubbing. Of course doggy style comes to mind, because the penis can rub against that sensitive patch of flesh both when going in and when pulling out. The positions featuring the woman on top are also very good because the lady can adjust the angle of insertion to make sure that the penis takes the correct route.

So there you have it, the three options for the brave lovers who are not content with regular sex, but are interested in discovering new ways of pleasing each other. And there’s probably no better way of pleasing a woman that full stimulation of both the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time. Men should never be ashamed to ask a lady to help them locate the G-spot, especially since the ladies will certainly be eager to help. After all, it’s in their best interest.